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What Women Want

Ah, one of the great mysteries of life, what do women want? It's an age old question that has haunted men for many centuries. There have been many volumes of words written on the subject and very few (if any) conclusions made.

In 1992, John Gray published his book, "Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus". In it he emphasizes the differences in the ways that men and women communicate. For example: when a man discusses a problem, he is looking for a solution but when a woman discusses a problem, she simply wants the problem to be acknowledged...she didn't call 911 and she doesn't expect the man to find a solution for her. There are all kinds of similar communication stumbling blocks between men and women.

Basically men and women want the very same things out of a relationship. Their lists of priorities are simply in a different order. Men would do well to learn a woman's order of priorities and women would do well to understand the order of a man's priorities. Simple understanding could eliminate a lot of misunderstanding between the sexes.

A woman's priorities are like this:

1. She wants a man that is physically attractive to her. She wants him to be clean and in at least reasonably good physical condition. He doesn't have to have muscles of steel but he can't be the proverbial 'weakling on the beach' either. Height isn't as important as muscle tone.

2. She wants him to be fun to be with and to provide male companionship. She has girl friends. She isn't looking for another girl friend in a boy suit. She wants to enjoy his company and she wants him to obviously enjoy her company. She wants to laugh together and have fun doing things that they both enjoy.

3. After the relationship has been established, she wants romance. A man should not confuse romance with sex. She doesn't want S-E-X. She wants romance and she wants it with a capital R. A walk on a wind swept beach at sunset while holding hands is romantic. A single rose delivered to her at work is romantic. In earlier times this was called 'courtship.' That is an old fashioned term but the objective is the same.

4. She wants recognition for and respect for what she does. It doesn't matter at all what 'it' is. If she cooks a nice meal, then she wants it to be appreciated and complimented. If she has a coup at her job she wants to her hard work to be recognized and respected. She wants to appear as an equal in your eyes.

5. She wants you to actually listen to what she says. She wants you to ask intelligent questions that prove that you are listening to her and understanding her. When she discusses a problem that she is having with you, she is NOT asking you to provide a solution. She is only asking you to listen and acknowledge that she has a problem.

6. She wants an intimate and sexual relationship with you but not before she is ready. She has to come to trust you enough to make herself vulnerable. Men and women view the sex act in different ways. You will be ready to take the relationship to a sexual level long before she will be.

7. She wants food. There is something primal in nature about a man feeding a woman. Traditionally women have been the cooks, but there really isn't anything that is more of a turn-on than a man preparing a meal for his lady.

8. She wants continuity. She wants to believe that you are going to be there even if things go wrong. She wants to know that you have staying power.

9. She wants acceptance. She wants your friends and your family to accept her and like her.

10. And last but by no means least, she wants faithfulness.

If you can give her what she wants and needs, you will most likely get what you want and need and much more - a very happy and fulfilling relationship.